Blog Psychologist

I know so many people who are looking for the "perfect partner". Unfortunately, they seem to pay no mind to whether or not they are an equally perfect partner. It makes sense doesn't it? I mean let's say you find this person, you have to ask yourself, what will they see in you?

For instance, I cannot tell you how many over-weight guys I've met in my life, who only date skinny girls. What is that about? These are the same guys who want virginal girls when they, themselves, are complete ...well...sluts. Let me tell you something guys, a virginal girl won't want you and whatever diseases you bring to the table.

Maybe you're hoping for a person to clean when you're a slob...well opposites do attract, so maybe that will happen, but why should it? Why should you get away with being half par, but expect so much from a partner?

Perhaps, instead of thinking about what you want, you should be thinking about what you want to be.